We know that talking about how you are feeling can often be very difficult, however there is help out there, you do not have to feel like this. We hear that women often worry that they will be judged or seen to be 'not coping', this is a common misconception. Health professionals are aware of how common anxiety is during the perinatal period, and are able to support you and your family.
There will be a range of treatment options available to you:
Self help - offers you the option of exploring how you might be feeling through workbooks which you can download or print off. Reading well books are available from most libraries, they promote the benefits of reading for health and wellbeing.
Talking therapy is a NICE recognised therapy delivered by a therapist either face to face, over the telephone or in groups. The therapy is available wherever you live via the NHS and is completely free. Women in the perinatal period (antenatal and up to 1 year post-birth) will be prioritised for talking therapy treatment. There are many different types of therapy available including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), which has proved very effective. You should receive your treatment within 6 weeks of the initial referral (NICE 2014).
Medication - You will need to seek the advice of your GP. For mild to moderate depression, talking therapy is the first choice of treatment and medication won't usually be considered until you have undertaken some therapy. The medications for treating depression are called antidepressants and there are lots of different ones to choose from. If you are pregnant or breastfeeding there are still antidepressants that you can take, but you need to discuss this with your GP. Please see further advice. It is not generally recommended that you take holistic medication without speaking to your GP in the first instance.
Here are some of the different ways you can access support locally:
- Your local Health Visitor
- Your GP
- Click here to find your local talking therapy service in Hertfordshire or West Essex
Birth reflections/after thoughts/debrief service:
If you have unanswered questions about your birth experience, you can contact your maternity service to discuss and understand what happened. The confidential service is run by midwives, and can help resolve any unanswered questions, discuss implications for future pregnancies and births, and give an opportunity to provide feedback both positive and negative of your experience.
Princess Alexandra Hospital - self-referral by emailing tpa-tr.antenatalclinicpah@nhs.net. Please include your name, date of birth and NHS number.
Lister Hospital: self-referral by emailing maternitybat.enh-tr@nhs.net. Please include your contact details.
Watford General Hospital - self-refer by emailing westherts.birthdebriefservice@nhs.net. Please include your contact details.
Self help: